Help! I Overeat – and I Don’t Know Why!

26th November 2019

Do you ever start eating when you’re feeling upset or stressed, even though you aren’t even hungry? Do you ever start eating just because it helps you feel better emotionally – kind of like a warm blanket?

If you answered yes to either of these questions, you might be an emotional eater – often combined with the act of binge eating.

People have different ways of handling and managing their feelings and behaviour when they’re feeling depressed, stressed, or upset about something. Some people choose to turn to food as a way of managing these feelings as food fills an emotional void for some people.

Emotional eating is when you eat in response to an emotional trigger – finding comfort in food when you’re upset, sad or depressed, or having negative feelings like anger.

After you choose to eat in response to feeling stressed or overly emotional, you then start feeling guilty or shameful after eating because you know you ate for the wrong reasons, i.e. other than hunger or the need to fuel your body after a workout, for example.

This can lead to cyclical emotional eating behaviour and typically won’t end until you face your emotional needs directly. Emotional eating can then lead to binge eating disorder, as well as other eating disorders, weight gain, and other related health issues.

While emotional eating affects both men and women, some studies say that emotional eating is more common among women.

Binge eating is the most common eating disorder in the United States and is classified as a medical condition. They tend to eat large amounts of food in a short amount of time, and then feel guilty and/or sad afterwards.

Binge eating is associated with psychological symptoms, including depression and anxiety. It’s important to understand your triggers to help anticipate binges before they occur. Obviously, there’s less chance that you’ll give into your triggers if you have a solid understanding of them.

One way to do that is to start a food diary, journal or tracker. This would include everything you eat, as well as logging your feelings and emotions around when, what and WHY you’re eating. This way, you can begin to pick up on patterns and uncover what your personal triggers may be.

What triggers can lead to emotional (and binge) eating?

There can be multiple factors involved, including the following:


How can you determine if you are an emotional or a binge eater? Be sure to pay attention to how and when your hunger starts, and how you feel after eating.

Sometimes it can be difficult to distinguish the difference between emotional and physical hunger.

Here are some ways to help you to determine which of the two main types of hunger – emotional & physical, that you’re actually experiencing: Emotional Hunger Physical Hunger

Emotional Hunger

Physical Hunger

If you think you might be an emotional (or binge) eater, here are some solutions to help overcome it:

And to top off that list, here’s a simple no-bake recipe for a healthy snack to keep on hand for the next time you’re having true hunger sensations – especially when you’re craving something a little sweet!


No-Bake Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Granola Bars


100g natural peanut butter, no sugar added

75g honey, unprocessed

300g cups old fashioned rolled oats (look for gluten free if necessary)

75g mini dark chocolate chips

Pinch of salt


Put the peanut butter and honey in a medium sized saucepan.

Heat over low heat until the peanut butter and honey can be easily combined (the mixture does not have to be hot just easy to blend). Stir well.

Add the oats, chocolate chips, and salt. Stir until well combined.

Place in a greased 8” x 8” baking dish and flatten into an even layer.

Cover and refrigerate until firm. Slice into bars or squares. Store in the refrigerator.


 [1] Elsevier, April 2014: Mindfulness meditation as an intervention for binge eating, emotional eating, and weight loss: A systematic review